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You've made some great posts, so far; keep up the great work!
Just read an article about a beauty queen who talked about her failed marriage to an Italian businessman because of a third party. Whatever reason there may be, its never easy to decide getting out from marriage more so that divorce is not legal in the country. I guess I shall now agree "love is a decision". More than accepting the person for who he is and who he may become, love is a continuous decision making whether to go on, let go of any imperfection or give up and move on.
Nothing is certain and life is a choice and because somehow a particular person brings with him something which at a particular moment we believe is what may inspire us to be the best we can be, we then decide he is the one. And because everything change -- circumstances and people, love is often affected. It's at times like this when decision becomes crucial.