My daughter has a light schedule this week. Last night, she requested to watch "singing bee" but since it was a school day and I said it before that "No TV on school days" then my "NO" shall mean NO. I know I have to be flexible but to please her as much as possible may promote self-centeredness.
Adult life is full of frustration. As such, my child needs to learn how to graciously accept "no" and make the best out of it. Admittedly, as a parent, to mean what I said often hurts me; but my child's training and development are more important. She must be equipped to meet situations in life where no one is concerned with pleasing her.